It’s been a couple weeks since we visited our local Lutheran Church, but right after I left for a business trip and then had visitors for my birthday… so we’ve had a couple Sundays off since this visit. I still want to chronicle it, though.
I don’t know where my lofty ideas of Lutherans came from.. It’s a pretty recent development that I think started when I found out they are cool with women pastors. I don’t think they were the first denomination to allow women to be pastors, but they are the first one that I found out about when that became an important aspect of my faith, so I think I latched on. Plus, Chad and I have both talked a bit about how we might be interested in a more liturgical or traditional church, something that doesn’t feel too close to our last church.
So I was excited about visiting the Lutheran Church around the corner from us. They have a woman pastor and I was anxious to meet her and hear her preach. Going in, I had high expectations.
First of all, let me say that one of my biggest problems with this whole “church shopping” deal is that a lot of feelings about each church are circumstantial. For some reason, this Sunday, I felt more uneasy than previous ones about visiting a new church, about walking in, being a stranger, meeting people… I felt more nervous and less sure. And who knows why? Maybe I was just having a nervous day. I know my mood can affect my impressions and attitude.
We entered the small church and sat down in a pew. Like in many traditional churches, we walked almost straight into the sanctuary. There was no reception area, except a small foyer with a guest book and a couple resources. There was no “information desk,” no coffee stations, not even groups of people gathered in small groups talking, so we just entered and sat down. One friendly woman got up, greeted us, and went to get us the order of service. I’m not saying I need a warm welcome at the door. I’m not great with chit-chat anyway, so in some ways, I want to just come in and sit down instead of awkwardly loitering around the lobby for a couple minutes. But I do want to feel welcomed too.
As I said, there’s a lot that is circumstantial about “church shopping.” There’s been a couple times so far in our church visits that I feel like we just happened to chose irregular Sundays, because they are doing baptisms, or the sound equipment is broken, or they have a special guest worship leader. All of this is fine, and fun in some ways to see something special happen, but it also doesn’t give you a feel for the normal routine of the church. And when you know some churches are only going to get one chance, you want to get a true feel for what’s it’s like. At the Lutheran Church, it was another irregular Sunday, because as soon as I scanned the order of service, I realized their pastor was away. Yup. Meeting her was what I was probably most excited about, but this Sunday, the deacon would be delivering the sermon. Okay. Fine.
It really is fine, because we can always go back and give this church another visit. And I think we might need to because I’m not sure I was in the best spirits that day for a visit. And the congregation seemed like a great bunch of people. They may not have greeted us at the door, but they welcomed us at the end and gave us information and encouraged us to leave our names for the pastor, who would be so upset she missed us. They also invited us downstairs for coffee, but I wasn’t up for it.
This was probably the most traditional or liturgical service we’ve been to so far, and there were things that I liked about that and things that made me feel a little lost because it’s not what I’m used to. It felt more formal to follow an order of service with prescribed readings and recitations, and in some ways I feel like that doesn’t match the rest of my life, where I don’t practice much order, but rather take each situation as it comes. But maybe a little more order in my life would be good.
We have one more church visit before we leave for vacation. Since we don’t speak Norwegian, I doubt we’ll go to church while we’re away, but maybe Chad and I can do something else instead together. We will be focusing on the theme of “peace” while we’re in Norway, so if you have suggestions for how we can work that into our Sunday mornings, I’d love to hear your ideas.
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We actually heard a sermon regarding peace this past Sunday. It was on Phil. 4:6-7. Pastor has been addressing the issues of anxiety, worry, and fear. I’d recommend reading that passage. Think about Paul’s circumstances, the church’s, and where you are at right now. Reflect on how fear, worry, and anxiety (lacking peace in the individual life) could lead to disunity in the church or a community—such as assumptions we make about circumstances, people, and situations without necessarily having all the facts available.
Pray for peace in world conflict. Ask if there is anyone you haven’t forgiven yet and pray you’d have peace with that person. You could research church history and the times of tribulation, peace, and war. Perhaps find an organization in Norway that emphasizes outreach through peace ministry—like feeding a homeless person. Pray for the folks around you, especially if they appear to be arguing (although if you don’t speak the language it might be difficult to discern if there is fighting going on or not).
I’m reading Joshua and wrestling with what it means to have a good God who is perfect in mercy and justice yet he commanded the eradication of the Canaanites. Jesus tells us to lay down the sword. Here God commanded they take up arms and slaughter the unrighteous. That’s hard for me. I know the Word is true and good. Yet I’m struggling to make sense of that so I’ve been researching, praying, and discussing it with Frank.
Those are some ideas and I hopes it helps rather than add to a list of confusing topics and endless choices.
Thanks for all the ideas Kelly! We are definitely visiting the Nobel Peace Center in Oslo, so that will be interesting to see the history of the Nobel Peace Prize and see all the different perspectives on bringing about peace.
Have you read this post from Rachel Held Evans & Peter Enns about the Canaanites: http://rachelheldevans.com/blog/peter-enns-bible-tells-me-so
I thought it was very interesting, so maybe it will help you as you struggle with those passages.
Thanks for the link! I’d like to read that book.